As human, we would naturally find reasons or excuses for someone whom we love and really care in order not to get ourselves hurt/upset. However, how long will you be able to stand yourself using the same old reason/excuse to shield/protect him/her? To me, if you are someone who doesn’t face the fact or truth, you are just running away and avoiding it. Issue not addressed it will always be there. For me, people may think I’m avoiding it, living in my own lala land since everything is still fine and going well, but I know what’s going on. I’m no fool. I got my ways in dealing so just don’t judge.